FAQs – The Fine Print
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Lil, what am I investing in a date with you? What are you offering? What aren't you offering?
You can find my rates here.
Every date is different. Let's create our moment together. Write me your wishes, fears, and phantasies. Tell me, what you've always wanted to try. What gives you peace of mind. That, which touches you. In return I offer you my 100% presence and authenticity as well as my time, passion and expertise.
I do not offer:
- free e-mail banter; I prefer it over dinner, IRL :)
- dates without a deposit
- unsafe practices
- free chat entertainment (please contact me via my OnlyFans for that) -
On Timing and Duration
Time is a most valued luxury. Our shared time even more so. Our date could look like that:
Le Week-End let’s escape for 2 nights!
L’OvernightA cuddly Sleepover, One-Night-Stand of 12h to 18h including 7h of uninterrupted sleep in one bed.
Or an Overnight (Own Room) Deep sleep in our own rooms.
Or an Escapade until Late A date beginning after 10PM or ending after 2AM and I kiss you good night.
Wine and Dine Perfect date of 5-8h for connaisseurs AND lovers of fine dining. Or A Brief Encounter of 1h up to 3h.
A 2h+ date includes social time. Aperitivo, drinks at the bar, tea time and a piece of cake? If you are not able to be seen at an outing, we can chat about rates and activities for longer dates in your room.
For dates beginning after 10PM an addition of 500€ applies. After 1AM an addition of 200€/h applies.
Getting home safely: A taxi home is always welcome. If a return home is no longer possible, accommodation costs are required.Outside of Berlin: My minimum booking duration when I’m available in cities other than Berlin is 3 hours; or the corresponding fee for shorter bookings.
For flights/travels to you (FMTY) my booking minimum is 1.800€ plus all travel costs (trains/planes, cabs, ground transport). For longer travels, a travel honorarium needs to be agreed upon.
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Deposit, Cancellation and Screening
If we haven't met yet, screening is part of the booking process. It’s to ensure my ability to plan, my safety and for you, a relaxed date that is well suited to you. The easiest method is to tell me 2 colleagues you have met before, provide your Linkedin, name and hotel room # or pay a deposit: I offer many different discreet deposit methods, some of which you can find here.
Your deposit is considered a date reservation and is due no later than 48h after I’ve send you the deposit details. Your deposit will be deducted from my total fee at the date. It is non-refundable, in case of cancellation by you. However, it can be transferred to a new date within 5 months. If this is not an option, the deposit is considered a cancellation- and processing fee.
If I have to cancel because you display unsafe behaviour, the deposit amount will not be refunded.
If I by any chance have to cancel our date due to personal reasons, I will suggest 3 alternative dates. If none of those work for you, I will refund the deposit via the most discreet method for me.
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100% Discretion
I date 'high-profile' clients and am verified here and on all other channels. Our dating is 100% consensual and we respect each other's need for discretion: The screening information you provide will remain confidential forever. What happens between us remains confidential. When you book me, you also commit to protecting my privacy accordingly.
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Who are you dating? Do you date couples?
I date people of any origin, skin colour, gender identity or body type.
I charge 50% extra for couple dates. To ensure that all parties are equally enthusiastic, I have a separate preliminary conversation with both of them.Duos? Threesomes? Orgies? Can you bring a girlfriend?
Yes! I have incredible friends for duo dates and small orgies. Keep in mind the extra planning and fee per person.
My friend Yve Fall and I love to turn your head in Zurich - it's also allowed to get a little dicier. Curious?All my friends and crushes:
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How else can I show you appreciation?
Appreciation is a wonderful prelude. We all like the recognition of elaborate planning work. I have many channels for your small tokens of appreciation: Here, too, completely login-free in US dollars and crypto. Ask me for more.
In Germany GIFT VOUCHERS are available in supermarkets and petrol stations from Spotify, Douglas or Zalando. I also appreciate online from Voo Store Berlin, Vabali SPA, Other Nature, Nose Paris Parfums, Atelier Bordelle and Tisja Damen Lingerie, DSTM Bodywear or the Walther König Bookstore.
For the discreet delivery of my fee in a colourful, not glued up envelope, I like books and scents. You can always find a selection fresh on my WISH LIST.